This was sent to me as a guide for success in life and I have posted it exactly as it came to me, typos and all.
Allow me to assure you that this is almost completely, Grade-A, 90%, USDA-approved crap. Take a gander and than I'll tell you why after the cut.
One caveat. The lines that are made bold are ones that I agree with (though for one entry I would have been much more tactful).
by Daniel Travolto
Specific Goal + Focused Energy = Success + Great Life
unconscious + conscious mind focus leads to focused energy
- set yourself big goals and small goals throughout the day
- do not waste your energy on other things like TV, Games and masturbating.
- Use audio affirmations (record on computer and replay in loop on headphones)
- put images of what you want to achieve everywhere in your workplace
- use mental visualization/daydreaming to imagine where you want to go
- use theta wave audio to enhance your mental visualization
- you grow when you push your limits
- rework your entire believe system using audio affirmations.
- If you think too much about what people think you dont think enough about your goals
I agree, but you don't know from where I came from. Trust me, with my early and abusive schooling and background and hurdles and walls, I'm a success story. True, I'm no Bill Gates, but people who knew me 30+ years ago are surprised and delighted to see me where I am today. Some of them are stunned.
Specific Goal + Focused Energy = Success is correct. Many of you have heard of the Law of Attraction, a New Age belief that what you concentrate on mentally, you will automatically draw to you like a magnet. That is nonsense, but because it is partly based on another real law, there is some truth hiding behind it. The Law of Focus simply states that what you focus on will become an important part of your life in some manner assuming the object of focus is realistic and attainable.
Case in point: Let's say you want to become the world's greatest expert on Pre-Raphaelite paintings. For the next three years you invest your life in doing nothing but talking about, reading about, studying about, collecting, and immersing yourself in the world of Pre-Raphaelite paintings. After 10,000 hours you will be a recognized expert on the subject. In fact, there is a rather certain rule of thumb that investing 10,000 focused hours of immersion in anything is guaranteed to make you an expert in that field.
And I actually believe that.
However, it does not necessarily mean you are going to have a great life which is why I do not have that highlighted. You may have some enjoyment, but if you sacrifice things like health, relationships, making a living, and other important facets of our everyday existence, your focus will end up biting you in the butt eventually.
Also, because the Law of Focus is such an important part of our growth, you can see why I highlighted conscious mind focus leads to focused energy and #2. Both of these deal with focus, though in the latter, I don't have a clue how to force your "unconscious mind" to do anything. It's unconscious! (or more correctly, subconscious).
And allow me to assure you that #'s 3 to 6 and # 8 are not going to work at all.
Don't even bother wasting your time with "affirmations" and visual imaging. They simply don't work.
What does work, is accomplishment.
Here's the skinny. Most of us have an internal critic who is one harsh mistress. She puts you down nonstop and appears to delight in your failure as she constantly screams about it and points it out. Affirmations and visual imaging are never going to shut her up. NEVER.
The only thing that shuts her up is accomplishment, because accomplishment is the only thing she can't argue against. (By the bye, my apologies. My own internal critic for some odd reason I perceive as female. Your actual mileage may vary.)
Let's say you want to learn to speak Spanish. The internal critic is already giving you reasons why you can never try such a thing even if you have never thought of such a thing before. "You're too stupid." "You don't have the time." "You'll fail just like you've failed at everything you've always touched."
However, if learning Spanish is a true goal of yours and it is a realistic and reachable goal, what you do is start out with what I call "small victories."
That means for the first week, you only learn five words.
Yup. Just five.
You review them on index cards you've turned into impromptu flash cards several times a day. You say them out loud. You review and review. At the end of the week even if you truly are lacking in the IQ department, you'll have those five words down.
Now take another five index cards and add five more words to your growing vocabulary.
In twenty weeks (4 months) you will have the vocabulary of at least an 8 year old for whom Spanish is their first language. How can I say that? Because for every language in existence, most concepts can be communicated in just 100 words.
Not that hard, huh? Reduce it to the ridiculous and you can practically achieve anything.
And you will notice that as time goes by, your internal critic starts losing her authority. She can't argue against accomplishment.
Let's say you want to be a writer? Same strategy.
Just write 500 words a day. Write more if you want, but all you're going to commit to is that you are going to write 500 words a day at least 5 days a week.
It's like eating an elephant. Anyone can do it if they take just one bite at a time.
At the end of the first week, you'll have a short story. In three-and-a-half months, you have a novella. In 8 months, you have a novel.
Got it? Understand it? Questions? Comments? Criticisms? Accusations? Death threats?
Okay. Now taking small steps and focusing on your goal, go out and accomplish.
God's grace on ya.